There are many issues that seem paramount in the hierarchy of metamorphosis as this planet moves forward into new states of consciousness. The environmental impact through a century of humanity’s ignorant behavior, the non stop manipulation of countries forced to go to war with each other through large-scale media orchestration, and the concealment of medical cures that would virtually eradicate all of the most feared diseases are of the most concerning while we open up to new vibrations. However, we believe, that there is a topic that can hinder all of the remedies to important issues concerning the schism of humanity’s personal evolution which can intern effect the aforementioned goals, and that is the sexual molestation of women in their childhood.
Females are five times more likely to be abused than males and one in four women in America may be sexually abused before the age of 18. Women are most vulnerable between the ages of 7 and 13. 50% of the victims do not tell anyone for at least 5 years and some never tell, which is the disastrous contagion effect we choose to focus on in this critique.
The situation becomes much worse when the victimizer is a parent. Extreme shame and distrust from a person that is suppose to protect you is instilled at a very young age. Sexual abuse victims can have a tendency to avoid close relationships entirely, they usually feel disempowered, have eating disorders and harbor the feelings that it was all their fault through their lifetime. They are angry at everyone but the one person in which their anger is justified. There is a self hatred inherent in everything they do while becoming abusive and controlling. The worst aspect is that they have a distrust of a higher power. This may translate as someone, who while has faith and can intellectually absorb spiritual text, but cannot respond with the proper feeling, as a “Child of God”. So fear rules them as they have a very unhealthy relationship with death and the afterlife.
Female sexual abuse is statistically rare, but much like ignorant behavioral specialists, these reportings do not consider underlying backdrop of vibration. If one were to agree with the logic of the conservation of energy that states that energy cannot be created nor destroyed, any behavioral specialist would have to look at various levels of spirituality which include mental, vocational, financial, physical, familial and social in which this energy can be transferred. So in essence if one has not revealed their childhood trauma, the buildup of experience can express itself in their children in the form of learned behavior on any of these levels. Can you have someone molest you on the mental, financial as well as physical levels? Yes you can.
While that is occurring, a more subtle explanation of energy transfer can exists. A child, particularly of the opposite sex, of a molested parent can express what that parent has been indefinitely repressing. Since the emotions linked to sexual trauma are not expressed to the molester, release is obviously blocked and has to go somewhere. A natural transfer of energy can be made through the opposite sex child as an expresser of what hasn’t been. The child can take on what the sexually abused victim endured and become not only shamed, but rageful and want to kill another person that resembles the victimizer. This may be because the child is less crippled due to the indirect experience and may be strong enough to act out what he feels. During sexual intercourse rape scenes can be spontaneously played out, which take on all characters, that can oscillate between leading to either misplaced fantastic sex or utter shame due to incongruent preference.
Whom do you blame for this? Do you blame the child for not taking on what he cannot make sense of because there was no real life experience associated with the feelings? Do you blame the mother for never divulging such a jarring familial experience? You blame the Grandfather for carrying out the act that some may view incomprehensible right? Well, do you take into consideration what the Grandmother wasn’t providing for sexually and emotionally for her husband which could be viewed as a cruel relationship dynamic? Or do you blame the Great Grandfather for cutting out the heart of the Grandmother at an early age? Well what kind of medevil experience did the great Grandfather endure?
A standard questionnaire on childhood trauma was used to assess the women’s early-childhood experiences, and their brains were scanned to measure the thickness of various regions of the cortex. Cortical thickness is linked to brain development, with thicker regions generally suggesting healthier growth. Brains, like muscles, develop through use, so regions that have been “exercised” more tend to be bigger.
The brain of a child who is raped, for example, may react by reducing the connectivity of the regions that were hurt or may be exponentially larger. Emotional abuse left a different type of scar. Here, the changes were seen in regions associated with understanding and controlling emotions and recognizing and responding to the feelings of others. “We [saw thinning] in areas that have to do with self-awareness and emotional regulation, areas in the prefrontal cortex and medial temporal lobe, which typically show activation when people are asked to think about themselves or reflect on their emotions,” Dr. Peter Pruessner says. The changes seen were not small: Pruessner says if a region typically was 5 mm. thick on average, in abuse survivors it was just 3 mm. to 4 mm. “The effect size was quite significant,” he adds.
The consequence of female sexual molestation is something that can be endured by the son, which can then be projected onto other females which can repeat something the female already possesses through her own experience. It can create an analyzation opportunity for self examination in which everyone who has emotionally reacted with the tendencies of a particular person, was in fact due to overlapping characteristics from their own experience. So female sexual abuse is not just a female problem but a male problem, and a world problem that may be at the heart of prolonging destructive platforms that plaque the modern world by allowing control and power for immoral reasons.
Again, what should not go unnoticed is the historical interactions of women by men spawned from this dynamic. Men do not need to be sorry for anything upon increased vibration! If you are a woman and you have past negative emotions about particular interactions, then work on yourselves, cause you needed to be there to hear what you think about yourselves. An emphasis on creating a better world view and overall quality of life for your kids than you ever had for yourself is something that most can agree as foundational livelihood, but that involves being strong enough to face fears that are more terrifying if left inside you. Otherwise, the wave of energy that has terrorized your ancestors will continue if you let it. And when you do, you are a hero, free of judgement. So just do it.
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